Thursday, 07 December 2017 18:02

No Means No!….Or does It?





Take a moment to think & honestly answer the questions that I’m about to ask you.


When asked to perform a favour, lend money or do anything else that doesn’t morally sit right with you; do you say ‘yes’ when deep down you mean no?

How about if you say no, only to feel guilty for doing so or bending under pressure designed to change your mind. I guess the question that I’m really asking is…


Do you find yourself saying ‘yes’ when what you really mean is no!


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Thursday, 07 December 2017 17:46

Don't Sell Yourself Out!






Lets just keep things one hunnid from the start!  

We all like fancy things, cars, houses, clothes & jewellery…I mean who doesn’t right?

And I’m not saying that there is anything wrong from wanting to acquire these things…What I will say is “How far are you willing to go to get them?” 

“What are you prepared to do?”

“What are you willing to put up with?” 


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Saturday, 02 July 2016 13:57

When Is Enough Gonna Be Enough?






The phone goes to voicemail when you ring…

He says he’s coming round to spend quality time with you but is a no show…

You are constantly having to talk to him regarding your hurt feelings…

You keep quiet to avoid ‘another’ argument…

He says that he loves you but doesn't want to commit…

He says he’s committed to you but hasn't introduced you to his family or friends…

You discover he’s having sex with someone else, yet you continue to share your body with him…


Ladies, I ask you…When is enough gonna be enough?


Saturday, 07 May 2016 16:50

Fix It Jesus! Asking For Help…





When you think he cheating…ask for help!


When your about to go to jail for hurting somebody (proverbially speaking of course ;0)…ask for help!


If your moneys lowASK FOR HELP!


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Crying is cathartic, it provides the individual with psychological relief as well as many other benefits. 


In today’s society we are expected to be in full control of ourselves at all times, this grows old real quick as its not a healthy expectation to place upon ourselves. 

Its acceptable to cry at a funeral or a world disaster but frowned upon if feeling fatigued, betrayed, heartbroken or futile.

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If your anything like me then you like to do things in your own sweet time...Only to then start running around like a headless chicken cussing badword! 


Arriving at your destination sweaty, smelly or unprepared to maximise the days potential is not only distressing but unnecessary. 

Your a free spirit you say...a time-optimist...I get it girlfriend believe me I do...But committing to this way of thinking is only gonna get you nowhere or somewhere very slow at best.

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Many of us are either ignorant too or dismissive of the transformational powers of sex.

Sex is powerful, its spiritual, Its primal essence is to create, however that which we choose to produce with this electrifying energy can potentially impair our spirits.